It’s easy to look at someone and make assumptions based on what we see in a single moment. We may notice their bad attitude, impatience, mistakes, or the way in which they respond to us. But what we cannot see is everything they carried with them into that moment.

Everyone around us has a story. Some have walked through difficult seasons that have left scars we will never know about. Others may be going through something right now that they have told almost no one. The person who seems distant may be grieving. The person who is impatient may be overwhelmed. The person who appears difficult may simply be doing everything they can to make it through the day.

As Christians, we have an opportunity to respond differently. Instead of assuming the worst, we can choose to see the best. Instead of returning frustration with frustration, we can offer patience. Instead of judging someone’s actions, we can remember that there may be a struggle behind them that we cannot see.

Most importantly, we can show them the unconditional love of Jesus.

Jesus did not reserve His compassion for people who had everything together. He saw beyond people’s failures, circumstances, and reputations. He saw their hearts, their hurts, and who they could become. As His followers, we are called to do the same.

Colossians 3:12 reminds us:

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

This week, look for opportunities to see the best in the people around you. Give someone the benefit of the doubt. Offer encouragement instead of criticism. Be patient when it would be easier to become frustrated. We may never know what someone is carrying, but we can make certain that their encounter with us adds kindness rather than another burden.

Sometimes the clearest picture someone will see of Jesus is the compassion, grace, and unconditional love they experience through one of His followers. May we live in such a way that when others encounter us, they encounter a little more of Him.