By Ryan Kelly –

Making big decisions in life can be tough. All of us have to make small decisions on a daily basis and all of them require the Lord’s guidance. But the big decisions need a particular amount of wisdom and direction from the Lord so that our paths will be guided around the pitfalls and problems that always surround us. These are the moments when we must pause, seek Him earnestly, and lean not on our own understanding.

James 1:5 reminds us that “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” What an incredible promise this is! God does not withhold His wisdom, nor does He scold us for asking repeatedly. Instead, He pours out guidance freely when we humble ourselves in prayer and trust that His ways are higher than ours.

At the same time, God often works through wise counsel. Proverbs 15:22 teaches, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.” Sometimes His direction comes through trusted friends, mentors, or spiritual leaders who can see things we may have missed. Seeking godly advice isn’t a sign of weakness but of strength—an acknowledgment that we are part of the body of Christ and need each other’s discernment.

Finally, Proverbs 16:9 reminds us of the ultimate truth: “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” We can make plans, set goals, and weigh options, but at the end of the day, it is the Lord who determines our path. This truth gives us peace. We are not left to wander aimlessly or fear making the wrong move. When we seek God’s wisdom, listen to wise counsel, and trust His hand, we can move forward confidently, knowing He will steady our steps.